I will say this here and now, that anal training is not for everyone. There are people out there whom are totally against such, and those people whom which find it very arousing. it is up to the Trainer in which if this training is actually performed is not performed. The first thing in which I wish to state is to always BE SAFE and if your going to do this, do it RIGHT. This can be very dangerous if not done properly, and can lead to a lot of internal hazards. The muscles of the anal area can be very stiff. You should never use objects in which are not made for anal play. Using household objects such as food, small animals is dangerous. You should take this training extremely slow, and always exhibit patience. This type of training can be very emotional for a lot of people. Always understand the psychological ramifications of things, and not just the physical ramifications of things. You can easily break a relationship rather quickly if this is not done properly.
If your working with a slave whom which is not familiar with anal play, you should treat this training with emotional caution and compassion. As time goes on, and the slave becomes aware that this will be a component of their life, less caution is required. Anal play can be used as a punishment, for humiliating purposes, or simply as a method of control of the slave.
In the case of anal training, some emotional effects are desirable. It is quite often exhilarating to watch your slave as they beg for this type of use. It can be a power trip for the Dominant, but remember not to over do it, while they feel ashamed of themselves for doing so. Anal training should not be done so regularly that it becomes comfortable for the slave to do during their daily tasks. It is a fine balance, and you must judge for yourself your slave’s mental health and background to a degree before exploring this area of training.
Beginning Stages to Anal Training
The first thing in which to do for anal training is to increase the slave’s exposure. They should learn that this part of the body is not off limits to you at any time. This can be accomplished by a number of ways. Any method which you use should include somehow making the slave focus on what they are doing, and why they are doing it. This is specifically that they are displaying the most private part of their body, and because they must make everything available to the Trainer/Dominant. Instruct the slave to focus on both these things simultaneously.
Some suggestions for a beginning slave:
- Have the slave lay on all fours, drawing their ass a bit high, their knees closed on a raised piece of furniture or a bed. Position yourself so they know you are behind them and that you are looking at them.
- Keep the slave in this position for a period of time. If the slave seems too comfortable with you talking to them like this, remain silent. If the slave is used to you being silent, talk to them.
- At the same point during the slave’s stay in position, they should be commanded to use their hands to spread their ass cheeks apart. Depending upon the slave’s state-of-mind at the act, you can either encourage the slave gently, or insist rougher, as you need a better view.
- Find other opportunities to increase the slave’s exposure to anal training, such as random inspections of such area, watching the slave bathe or remaining with the slave while they use the toilet, adding anal training to punishment or sexual acts. You may want to include the area in the slave’s cleansing rituals.
- The fist act of insertion should be done with a latex gloved, lubricated finger. Even if the slave is familiar with such play, start this way.
- An effective position for this approach is to put the slave over your knee as though you were going to spank the slave.
- Watch the slave’s face for reactions as your examining the slave. Watch to see if the slave is in physical pain, or emotional distress. Watch to see if the discomfort is more then the slave can handle or exactly the way you want such.
- If the humiliating factor is something in which you enjoy, you may suggest that the slave have a enema the next time your going to perform this. Having to actually perform a cleaning ritual on this specific area, will make the slave more aware, and heighten the feelings and emotions of such actions. This should be done whether the slave needs it or not.
- If your goal is to increase the slave’s sexual ability to sexual gratify someone in such a way, hold your finger steady and have the slave clench down upon it, then relax the muscles, or simply encourage the slave until you feel the save relax, while you move your finger in and out.
Using Anal Plugs
You should always have three different sizes of anal plugs, small, medium and large. The size of the plugs should be proportional to the slave, and not generally. What might be large to one slave, may not be large to the other. You should always begin with the smallest size and work your way up.
- The slave should learn to hold the plug in position, and be able to move about without it slipping out. While lubricating is always necessary, to much will make the plug very slippery, and fall out easily.
- If you haven’t set your slave up to fall by being too generous with the lube, the slave should be reprimanded and punished if the plug slips out. Move to the next size, if the muscle weakens and the plug becomes impossible to keep in.
- The slave should be requested to wear the plug for time periods, gradually increasing the periods in which the plug is left in, till you feel the slave has become comfortable with the plug. At this time, move up to the larger size.
Wearing the anal plug will never come comfortable, that the slave will forget the plug is in place. The constant awareness, the feeling of being stretched open in this part of the body, and knowing you are watching the slave as the slave goes about their duties is a effective way to keep the slave in “slave space” and focusing the slave’s attention on the powerlessness of the slave’s position that a attitude of servitude is almost guaranteed.